Hi friends,
This isn't my opinion only, it's a true story with a fatal ending during last Christmas.
(We are in Summer 2009) - Johnny looked at me with the deepest sadness and despair I had ever seen in my life in a man's eyes. He said: "You know, Thano, I was in my early forties when I could have found the first signs and avoid this terror. Because it is Terror... The doctor helped me realise that it was a combination... Bloody smoking, eating fast food and all those "s...t", being nervous with everything that went wrong, drinking beer & vodka more than water..., No exercise, never, no check-ups... And here I am, on my last visit back home. I'll return to St. Leonards-on-sea next week, they say I have to start that chemo-therapy very soon. I think it has gone to the liver too... But I kept saying, what the hell, I have half a century ahead! I'll dance, go to France for vacation next summer with a new girlfriend, make some nice clips for Youtube!... (long pause)... I shouldn't have done this to myself! I completely forgot to care for my health"
Johnny was, in his lifetime, one of the most youthful, energetic, willing to live, travelling and revolutionary human beings I had met or knew. He was more than a friend, a brother I'd say... John Passed Away forever, feeling that his childish lack of health care punished him forever. And so it was... this is what I call horror...
Because you don't want to experience such a tragedy, because you don't smoke in a house with a baby, because you feel 10 years younger when exercising, because I can tolerate the smoke of your cigarette - BUT I CANNOT TOLERATE YOUR ABSENCE FROM MY LIFE, OR FROM LIFE ITSELF- PLEASE QUIT SMOKING, EAT FRUITS, EAT PROPERLY, EXERCISE YOURSELF! RESPECT YOUR HEALTH, YOUR BODY. RESPECT YOUR EARS. RESPECT YOUR HIGHEST WISH, TO LIVE LONG (AND LISTEN TO MUSIC!)...
I'm sorry if I made you feel uncomfortable and probably out of this forum's usual talk and mood. But it must be understood that everyone of us can prevent damages in his health by taking some serious-yet simple- measures, BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! Because there's one thing worse than death itself... BEING IN DESPAIR WHILE LIVING! KNOWING THAT YOU WON'T MAKE IT!
My Harbethian Friends, please stop smoking (those of you who do so), please take more care of yourselves, your health, as we all happily enjoy our living communication. Johnny adored pop, rock and soundtrack music & films. He lived very close to Harbeth and was taken care - in his final months in life - from MacMillan foundation and St. Michaels Hospice in the East Sussex, U.K. He created and directed the following video (link), courageously even while loosing his last hope for surviving cancer. Watch it and imagine what a life lover he was!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JDiuH-WUKk
Thanks for your time in reading this message,
Thanos


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